A blog for Simon Guerrier Saturday, October 08, How to write a speech about someone you know I sometimes get asked to help my friends and family when they have to write things.
Heavy, I know, but there is a silver lining to that oblivion cloud: The same thing will happen to your enemies, and with any luck, it will happen to them first. No one ever wins in life, but as long as you strive to be the very last loser, you may have the luxury of watching awful people fall around you.
Now, every once in awhile, a third party will mistake your lifelong rivalry for a competitive friendship and ask you to speak at a funeral for one of your enemies.
A funeral you only planned on attending to see your adversary locked helplessly in a box and buried. But you never turn down a challenge and you are no quitter, as evidenced by Continue Reading Below Advertisement your even heartbeat, your strokeless brain.
My God, you could do a hundred jumping jacks right now if you had to, even in that expensive suit. You will accept and you will eulogize so hard that your rival's family will fill the voids they feel with your words, or, if they are attractive, potentially your genitals.
Yes, when life hands you the body of your enemy, you will make lenemy-ade. Here are five tips on enduring out loud in the dead face of your nemesis.
The dead will always live on in the hearts and minds of those who survive them. It's annoying, but until science finds a way for you to crawl inside a human head and murder those memories, it's something you'll have to tolerate.
In the meantime, you can do your level best to cloud everyone's recollections of the awful person in the casket. The easiest way to do this, strangely enough, is through generic praise.
Getty "She had a good heart. But not that good, obviously, because it malfunctioned. In truth, anyone who spent an entire life smiling and blindly throwing around kindness would be a nightmare to hang out with; all that optimism would get exhausting.
But the bereaved love hearing this kind of thing, and it has the added benefit of replacing the real memory with a flimsy, two-dimensional caricature. Already you are chiseling away at the true personality of your rival. Once you've thoroughly stripped away his or her individuality with trite cliches, take a moment to remind your audience of the very specific shortcomings of your enemy A throaty and broken assertion that your enemy was taken too early from this world is a surefire way to let everyone know that he left a lot of loose ends before cowardly dying.
Responsible people finish what they start. By saying, "He was taken before his time," you can indirectly acknowledge that your enemy left a lot of shit unaccomplished. Getty Some unfinished projects will be more tangible than others. Continue Reading Below Advertisement It doesn't matter where you focus, be it the moments you wished you'd spent together, the things you never got to do or even the goodbye you'll never get to say; these all translate to failures that the person in the casket can only silently shoulder.
You, after all, are still making the effort, while your adversary has cut ties and left.
Best of all, as you rattle them off one by one, everyone in the crowd will tearfully nod and think about the personalized and private ways he also let them down. It's going to be great.
Now, if you accidentally smile, don't worry. You have an out This is a good time to bring up embarrassing anecdotes that pivot on the endless inadequacies of your enemy. Be careful, though; this should have a very specific order and flow to it or else it will come off as a charming memory, which is the last thing you want.
Here's how it should play: Look pensively toward the horizon as though you're writing a mental note to make time for more awesome things before you die.
Jobs, family, friends -- these are the things that came first for [name of the unpleasant carcass]. She never got to live out those dreams, because we -- you and I -- were always the priority.
It's just easier, and I get to keep creative control. Anyway, I've got a box of these if you want one. Furthermore, pointing to heaven is a nice gesture, even if everyone knows that dead is dead.
They will still respect you for pretending. By now you're probably feeling pretty good, so the next step is to subtly establish the possibility of an after party.The Word "Retarded" is offensive and hurtful to many people.
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How to write a speech about someone you know I sometimes get asked to help my friends and family when they have to write things. In the last few months, I've offered more or less the same advice to a lady writing a eulogy and a gent stuck with a best man's speech.
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